There are people who are afraid to fall in love as they don’t want to get hurt but can you control yourself when the cupids bow hits you?
There’s a little space between love and hatred as when you fall in love beside it are pain, tears, suffering that results with hatred. Though i don’t generalize it as there are people who will understand and respect the person when they decide to move out of the relationship and they just let their love to the person controls over hatred.
Being in love will let you feel that your on the happiest and loneliest moment of your life. There’s no perfect relationship. It will definitely have a point that you feel that your relationship will crash and that you can’t make it work but then there will be times that you felt your flying or your in heaven being with your love, seeing him/her beside you, seeing how happy he/she is with you, feeling the love and care their sharing with you.
People tend to see their love one’s as their inspiration, as the breath that they take, as their lives, and some will tell that they can’t live without them. But can’t you really live without them? I don’t think so! you have lived without them when you haven’t met them or share the special relationship you have with each other and you can do that now that their not around. Your just putting it on your mind and let depression controls you thats why you can’t move on. I do understand that you love the person but you must love more yourself. Life doesn’t end when something like this happened. Heartbreaks are part of life. This are trials or problems that you will encounter for you to learn something. A relationship doesn’t begin and end for nothing. When you fall in love you’ll be happy, enjoy it while its there. Hold it like a baby, hold it like your holding a gold, hold it carefully but not too tight as when you do it will do everything and shows you effort to be free from hold just like the little baby who will cry out loud for you to know that he/she is irritated from your hold. So hold it gently as you care and you don’t want them to slip away from you hands.
I can relate to this article. I too is afraid to commit again after having a sad break up with my 2 past successive relationship..it is a little bit scary to try again and give the best I can show..I don’t know right now if i am willing to commit again..:(
Michelle
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Don’t be afraid to fall in-love again. Just don’t forget to leave something for yourself. It is not the end of the world after those past relationship. It might be given for you to learn something and be more brave and confident. I too had sad relationships still i am enjoying my life. I don’t want to be alone forever but still i love myself and i don’t want to hold the depression for a long time. Family, relatives, friends and work help me a lot to come out of that depression. And even there is still sadness and heartache in me, i am enjoying my life as how i want it to be.
i agree with you Kris.. i experienced feeling depressed when me and my ex boyfriend for 5 YEARS broke up. mahirap magtiwala ulet… pro sbe nga nila, laging may rainbow after ng rain 🙂 you should never be afraid to commit or fall in love again. part ng pagmamahal ang masaktan. kaya nga tayo natututo 🙂
but…what exactly is the feeling when u are falling in love with somebody??
I really don’t know…i really don’t now what’s my feeling on him…i used to be very close with him…but now…i feel like avoiding him….he does like someone but i know i will never be the one….what should i do??
yeah its true dont be afraid to fall in love because this is the best feelings that Lord gave us to all people who feel in love me i realized and i fall in love with the guy before but im so upset when i knew that he have other love so i move on its not easy to move especially he or she is your first love that ever come to your life we cannot understand how to fall in love seriously if we dont even try so for me even i dont have love now i still find the true love that i really wanted to the person…
We do have different ways on knowing that we’re actually falling in love connie but still there are some similarities like we always thought about them, etc…with your case i am not sure why are you avoiding him is it because you don’t want him to know your feelings? if he already like someone then better forget him and just stay as his friend…just enjoy your life and who knows the one for you will be there…there are a lot of guys out there waiting for you…
greatings
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hi me too i don’t know what is the feeling of being in love
for me if somebody court me…. i like him…. but i don’t know if he love me to…. all i know that if he said i love you….. its true
but why is end its hurt for me i realize that i love him………
i need your opinion please answer me….
if u want to know that u love him its simple if u feel angry whn he talk to other girl it is pure love and if want to conferm that if he loves u its also vry simple just womet at his hand if he hat it thn leave him n still he is care 4 u without think abt womet he loves u n never wll leave u
i feel i’m in love with some one.im so young to be inlove with some one that’s my best friends chrush too.its to hard.
it has been so long since i hadn’t any relationship,until a girl came to my life.,she has everything what i like of her and even gave her number to me.,plus she is popular among the boys.,when we talked, it always me ended up the conversation(too many commitment), i had this feeling she might lost interest in me.,
to be honest i really do like her.
ow! dats awesome..the true meaning of love is to love and to be love..but you must expect the unexpectable moment like hurts or being unhappy because of not working relationship you have..but still you expecting it work maybe,someday
its soo hard for the girls to tell what they really feels for the guys..because they think what people will tell about them negatively..
hope they can tell their feelings for the someone they love without thinking what other think about them..
before its too late..
you’re right. girls are generally discouraged from admitting their love. in relationships, usually the guy will say the L word first… it’s a shame. girls are taught to look at superficial things like money, presentability, how they are around people. it’s a shame my parents have always focused on that for my partners. i’m living my own life now, though. 🙂
i love the guy namedly “jereome cadiao” but i can`t tell him what id feel for him because he is a brother of my ex boyfriend..lol even im a hustler im not that so brave to tell him that i love him..can you give me some advice…hELP MEHHHH!!!!!plzzz
hmmmmmm try mo nalang yan
being inloved is just apart of our life
dot be afraid for that because it will come in your life and will not lived you
looking for true love
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really, love hurts so much, especially when u lv some1, an the one u lv, loves some1 else
You guys I use to be you always waitiing on love, going out with the wrong guys. I meet my true love in high school but then we moved to the city. when I get set in the big city life I would go to party and go out with guys, but they would always be jerks. They was just something missing. i didn’t know what but then I came back to my home town just for a vist and there he was my night and shining hoonor we conneted just like we had never been apart. I am telling you this so you know that they are someone out there for you stop looking and enjoy your life I know that its hard to be alone but get out of the house and get dallled up and just go have fun if its meant to be believe me it will come when you least expect it. me and josh are still together and I have two kids I still get goose bups and butterflys in my stomach just with him walking in the room. so chain up k he or she is out their your just not ready yet. you have to learn to not take it for granted k good luck get out and enjoy your life
Jamie
i wanted to be in love but i am too shy or i haven’t meet the right person,i am confused. i truely wanted to feel the grt feeling of being loved and love someone
I always open my heart for a love even though how many times I cried and I betrayed, I still believe on it… All I know, you can move-on with your past if you start a something new more than him.. Being in love is a state of bliss feeling… Don’t hold on to something that makes you blue..
your post is very interesting and I like it. your perspective towards love and relationships is so matured and composed.
am super in Love with my boyfriend now but there’s a feeling of regrets why i chose him rather than the one who Love me most…regrets b’coz my boyfriend and his ex-girlfriend had a baby while he is still committed to me as his girlfriend…it hurts me so much but still i accepted him…i still love him though.. our relationships had ups and downs but i never quited..it seems like i give him my all… i don’t know how to control my feelings..i don’t want to loose him.. its too hard for me….
hi.,.,
ahhhmmmm.,im afraid to fall wd sme1,bcoz im alwys got hurt.,
Love has its own time, its own season, its own reasons for coming and going. You cannot bribe it or coax it into staying. You can only embrace it when it arrives and give it away when it comes to you”
i have been dating a guy over a couple of months now and he have never told me he love me but always say he have feelings for me and he like me.my question is.is feelings stronger than love?
hmpp.. happy of love
WHAT is the FEELING of BEING in LOVE?
for couple of years i have this question in mind– but i just know the answer the time I know a man instead of a guy. YOU’ll know what is love until you’ll on it!
as an old cliche goes ‘in every hi, there’s goodbye’. so, my great story with has come to end. And I can’t deny that I am still on the stage of being afraid to be in a new relationship after him. Sometimes moving forward and thinking to be with someone else after a failed-relationship is the hardest thing to do. But I think its also the bravest thing a person can do, just leave the past, live life in present and make it a choice of choosing to love yourself a little bit more.
WHAT is the FEELING of BEING in LOVE?
for couple of years i have this question in mind– but i just know the answer the time I know a man instead of a guy. YOU’ll know what is love until you’ll on it!
as an old cliche goes ‘in every hi, there’s goodbye’. so, my great story with him has come to end. And I can’t deny that I am still on the stage of being afraid to be in a new relationship after him. Sometimes moving forward and thinking to be with someone else after a failed-relationship is the hardest thing to do. But I think its also the bravest thing a person can do, just leave the past, live life in present and make it a choice of choosing to love yourself a little bit more.
Hiiiii….i need to know what is happning with me. When ever i c her ,i feels some unknown feeling .i can not tell what is this feeling, it makes my heart worm.pleeeeeeeezzz tell me what iz dis ,,,,only attraction ooooooooOOr love
as for me , i have a boyfriend right now , i feel like in heaven wen i am with him BUT my parents dont like my boyfriend , but ryt n0w we are secretly loving each other . . What shall i do to make my parents accept our relationship . .? I need your opinion . .
Kindly help ?
Hi
Lv
the Lord gave us all love. even if we dont realise it is there but we feel love everyday of ours lives from Him. even if we havent found our soul mates here on earth yet (i know i havent) but the feeling of love is always there from the day we are born to the day we die. God loves us all.
I must say love is a wonderful gift that God gave us. I’ve met a wponderful woman who treats me so well, she earns a better living than i do at this moment, that does make me feel less Dominant in our relationship even though she hands over her heart to me and ask for just one thing “(to be faithfull)”. I’ve stood my grounds thus far and i must say all my bad experiences with women before were just for me to learn from and also to know the true value of love and relationships. As a stubern man in certain little ways we have a relationship that is close to heaven… We never had an argument that can’t be solved,we would never stay away from each other for too long as i feel my life is growing short each time she is away from me. I must cngratulate skype for a wonderful software they created and Apple for their amazing Ipone as communication made easy for us when we are away from each other. At first when we met she turned me down a few times but what i felt the first time when i met her was true love and happiness from the heart which comes once in a lifetime, it felt like my heart was alive in another world that is called Love. Some say love at first sight isn’t real but i can attest to it that for me it is. When that young lady gave me a chance to take her out once i knew i had to make an impression that will last a lifetime. She seemed scared out of this world on our first date but as i looked into her eyes i could see hurt from her past relationships as i though about it i knew i had alot of work to do as to show her that the past can be forgiven, forgotten and all men arent the same. Up till this very moment i can remember what clothes she was wearing, shoe, lipstic, the style of her hair, her smell. She was in all white, semi curly long black hair bouncing on her shoulders with a glow like an Angel, she took my breath away. I’ve been frustrated for months and months as i couldn’t stop thinking about this girl, i just knew she was the one. When i first met her mom she didn’t wanted to speak to me and she quoted that you have to be dating my daughter for two years before ill acknowledge you because i dont need to meet you now and later you’re gone,this is not a test run. I felt so hurt as she didn’t know that i was serious, it did came to points which i was angry at her mother because she just refuses to speak to me as she was serious about two years and i wrote her mom an email and i literally poured my heart out in it but yet she was still hard on me and didnt speak to me. I then came to a decision and sent her an email letting her know im sorry for all the past experiences she had but she an give me an even longer period of time as even if it takes 5 yearsill still be there, i told her im going to make her tired of my face as im not going anywhere. Now everything worked out perfectly, My girlfriend and i are getting married next month and its funny how it all happened because she was thinking really hard and trying to find me somethingfor my birthday in January and i wanted only one thing for my birthday and that was to make her my wife.. She was so happy, i made her a very happy woman and now shes making me the happiest man in the world. Some time back when we were on vacation she saw a bracelet that is really nice and its very trendy but some only can afford just one piece out of the set and she loved it so much she even commented the patron to the beauty of it, i have a surprise for her next month as i had to use a months paycheck to get her this one, she wouldn’t want me to spend a months paycheck on anything thats not for both of us or family but i just couldnt stop thinking of her when i saw it in a jewellry store and they were only selling the whole set with a bracelet, a necklace and the earing to match. i purchased and and not im going to hand her a cute little gife in a few weeks as i want to give it to her now but i want to wait, so anxious.
im inlove now pero nttkot aq pumasok sa serious relationship…
feeling ko lhat ng llake manloloko…bata pa ako hi2ntayin q na lng
ang tamang guy na hindi aq lolokohin…
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It sounds as if you were hurt very recently. That or you were hurt badly and have had troubles fully moving past. I understand what that feels like. When you least except it you will find the real thing. Trust me.
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I dont know what love is, I only know is love makes your life suffer. Based on my observation lots of women right now are willing to give everything for their partner but their partner doesn’t appreciate it. That’s why Im too afraid to try love because I dont want to ruin my life and I dont want to cry. Yes I want to experience the word “FOREVER” in my future partner in life but I dont know how:? what is the first step ? how can I know that his love is genuine ?! lots of question in my lots of question sink in my mind right now. We all know that perfect relationship doesnt exist because we live in Reality not in fairy tale.. guys do you think what I gonna do right now?? I really want to feel satisfy in my life but I cant do that because Im coward to fall inlove to someone ;( 😦