There are people who are afraid to fall in love as they don’t want to get hurt but can you control yourself when the cupids bow hits you?
There’s a little space between love and hatred as when you fall in love beside it are pain, tears, suffering that results with hatred. Though i don’t generalize it as there are people who will understand and respect the person when they decide to move out of the relationship and they just let their love to the person controls over hatred.
Being in love will let you feel that your on the happiest and loneliest moment of your life. There’s no perfect relationship. It will definitely have a point that you feel that your relationship will crash and that you can’t make it work but then there will be times that you felt your flying or your in heaven being with your love, seeing him/her beside you, seeing how happy he/she is with you, feeling the love and care their sharing with you.
People tend to see their love one’s as their inspiration, as the breath that they take, as their lives, and some will tell that they can’t live without them. But can’t you really live without them? I don’t think so! you have lived without them when you haven’t met them or share the special relationship you have with each other and you can do that now that their not around. Your just putting it on your mind and let depression controls you thats why you can’t move on. I do understand that you love the person but you must love more yourself. Life doesn’t end when something like this happened. Heartbreaks are part of life. This are trials or problems that you will encounter for you to learn something. A relationship doesn’t begin and end for nothing. When you fall in love you’ll be happy, enjoy it while its there. Hold it like a baby, hold it like your holding a gold, hold it carefully but not too tight as when you do it will do everything and shows you effort to be free from hold just like the little baby who will cry out loud for you to know that he/she is irritated from your hold. So hold it gently as you care and you don’t want them to slip away from you hands.
I can relate to this article. I too is afraid to commit again after having a sad break up with my 2 past successive relationship..it is a little bit scary to try again and give the best I can show..I don’t know right now if i am willing to commit again..:(
Michelle
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Don’t be afraid to fall in-love again. Just don’t forget to leave something for yourself. It is not the end of the world after those past relationship. It might be given for you to learn something and be more brave and confident. I too had sad relationships still i am enjoying my life. I don’t want to be alone forever but still i love myself and i don’t want to hold the depression for a long time. Family, relatives, friends and work help me a lot to come out of that depression. And even there is still sadness and heartache in me, i am enjoying my life as how i want it to be.
i agree with you Kris.. i experienced feeling depressed when me and my ex boyfriend for 5 YEARS broke up. mahirap magtiwala ulet… pro sbe nga nila, laging may rainbow after ng rain
you should never be afraid to commit or fall in love again. part ng pagmamahal ang masaktan. kaya nga tayo natututo 
but…what exactly is the feeling when u are falling in love with somebody??
I really don’t know…i really don’t now what’s my feeling on him…i used to be very close with him…but now…i feel like avoiding him….he does like someone but i know i will never be the one….what should i do??
We do have different ways on knowing that we’re actually falling in love connie but still there are some similarities like we always thought about them, etc…with your case i am not sure why are you avoiding him is it because you don’t want him to know your feelings? if he already like someone then better forget him and just stay as his friend…just enjoy your life and who knows the one for you will be there…there are a lot of guys out there waiting for you…
greatings
will read it later
hi me too i don’t know what is the feeling of being in love
for me if somebody court me…. i like him…. but i don’t know if he love me to…. all i know that if he said i love you….. its true
but why is end its hurt for me i realize that i love him………
i need your opinion please answer me….
i feel i’m in love with some one.im so young to be inlove with some one that’s my best friends chrush too.its to hard.