My Friend’s Wedding

It’s been a while since my last post in here. I’ve been busy with a lot of things; work, problems, friends, and special occasion.

The special occasion i am saying is not really for me, i’m just part of it. I am actually glad to be part of it. The special occasion was my friend’s wedding.

At the start of it all she asked us to see her personally as she have something to say but because of some reasons we can’t make it as a whole. I’ve already discuss this with my previous post entitled Missing my Best Friends. For that reason we had constant communication again and that we regain the warm friendship(though i know it never leaves us) and it is like we are back to college where we first met and started our friendship.

In this particular happening made our friendship more sturdy and we know that this will last forever. We make it a point that we will do our best for our friend to be happy on that day though we didn’t gave her such gifts we know that being present for her special day will always be the best gift that we can give.

The night before the wedding, we slept at their house and so we will go to the church together. Seeing her walking down the aisle, memories field my mind. Our college days when she’s still our “baby” and now that she’s starting a new journey, a new chapter with her husband and future babies. It is unlikely that we, her friends cries during that time. We didn’t expect that her parents will not show tears as she’s also the baby of their family instead we saw the love, the respect, the understanding, the happiness, and the acceptance that the baby of the family is getting married and it is the time where she have to go on her own with the new chapter that already started. And i know that her parents know that she will always be there for them even though she already have her own family.

At the reception where the newly weds and their parents were asked to say message or promise with each other, we again started crying (don’t be surprise as our tears are really that shallow..hehe). The father of the groom was serious, his mother is a little emotional, the father of the groom made a comic message when he say that “now i know, she’s my most beautiful and special child as her siblings get married on their early 30s while she marries at 20s.”, and her mom is also emotional and we are touched when she say to the groom “take care of her, she’s my baby”. We are touched and teary eyed when we heard that as we also feel the same way though we know that it is on a different degree, as she is also our baby.

Their wedding day is one special day as we again see each other. I missed all of them. Even though we text and in constant communication, it is still different when you see each other everyday. I miss those days when we are in college, when we hang out, talked a lot of things, have fun, and make memories of our friendship. I still feel the love and care through them. I missed our boy friends as I’ve been really closed to them. Some of my friends say that i am ONE of the boys; yes I do (hehe). I am a little boyish when i’m still young but i guess until now. I am really glad to see them again and before we separate our ways they actually lift me just the way they did before, it is like going back to the past when we’re in college and having some fun.

To my newly wed friends, Congratulations, always be happy and take care of each other. Always keep in mind that we are always be here for you guys. To all my friends, hope to see you all soon. I miss you a lot and I hope that we can still do those things that we do back in college.