I know not all wants to be a wife, a mother and a homebody but i’m not one of them as i prefer to be a wife, a mother of four kids and a home body, a house wife, a hands on mom. Yeah, a hands on mom and wife. I admit i don’t know how to cook, nor wash laundries, nor iron clothes so who’ll believe that i want to be someone hands on with everything. I know it’ll affect my dreams but i am not really innocent on doing such things. I know how to cook rice and fry some foods but it wasn’t enough, i know. Learning things is possible if you just do it by heart.
I want to have four kids just like i’ve mentioned a while ago. I want two boys and two girls if that would be possible and i want a boy to be my eldest for him to be a role model, and for him to guide, help out, defend his younger siblings. I want my sons names to have “Paul” and my daughters names to have “Joei” that’s read as “Joy”. Yeah, you can laugh as i already plan their names before having them (hahaha). I too laugh at it but what can i do i can’t help it but well if my husband do not want it then we can talk about that but isn’t it cute to have something in common with your kids (hahaha).
A hands on wife, i want to take care of everything my husband needs and let him feel how much i love him. I want to see myself waking up early in the morning to fix his clothes to wear to the office, to serve him breakfast and to prepare food for him to carry to the office and eat for lunch. And then just wait for him to got home after a stressful day then serve him dinner, give him massage, and then sleep together (how sweet is that, isn’t it?).
A hands on mom, i want to take care of my kids from their birth till my last breath (Yeah, what a mom). I just don’t want to let only nanny’s to take care of them as I want them to know that I am always there to understand, to take care of them, to listen to them, and to love them. I want to serve their breakfast, lunch, and dinner, from milk, cereals to real food. I want to play with them, read them stories before sleeping, help them out with their school lessons or any problems they might encounter. I want to be involve with their lives but not too attached nor spoil them (oh well, yeah maybe spoil them a little) with it as they have to stand by themselves and not always depend on us.
A homebody or a housewife. Yeah why not, i am open with it if my husband wanted to. It doesn’t matter. At least, i will have a lot of time with my kids and do everything in our house. I can built my own business that can be base at home and no need for me to go out. That way I can help my husband earning money for our family while taking care of everything at home and my family. Isn’t it great to have your life around home. Having fun with your kids while doing some household chores and being responsible with your family and your business.
Well, what do you think?Is my dreams possible or not? As for me, it is possible if I want it to and I intend for it to happened though i do not have control with everything I know I can do it if I will focus and put all of this in my heart. I really want to have a great family. I know it is hard. I know it wasn’t simple. I know there’s no perfect family. But who wants to have a perfect family? We just want a family who stick together and hold on no matter what problems you’ll encounter just be beside of each other and trust each other that they will always be beside you. And let God be the center of your lives.
Life is full of mysteries… we just wake up each day, see and experience every changes, deal with every situations or let them pass, think and enjoy good things, prepare ourselves for waiting responsibilities and sometimes leaving some unnecessary things behind sleeping, mostly unaware time gone too fast… we heard a lot of people life stories from their successes and failures, we learned from our daily activities, believed on very thoughts that matched on our interest, seen many shows & films that deeply entertained, influenced us and provoke our mind… giving us ideas and plans on how we could feel and enjoy life better… let’s just not live it like a template, remember we used to be a child playing around, take primary secondary education, hurrying to grow up so we can do what older can, then work, few years later have a family, watch our kids grow up until they finish their education… the same we used to be before… and us… grow older and wait for our time… is it a cycle? but wait, why don’t we take few steps and take a look at the world outside! good example is by simply taking different routines and do things in other ways, seeing situations in different angles, etc… and packed with our thoughts and plans, do our best thinking things happen only once, we can still achieve our ideal way living it, so we can not just live life… but feel life!
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eto comment ko! (basta ewan ko jan sa nauna kung anu yan at kung nabasa ko man yan kung saan basta keyboard n may gawa nya!)
Ang galeng! interesteng hehehe!!! i know you can naman eh kze jan n nakatuon isip mo plus your strong personality! (nde kaya yaya dating mo nun?? just kidding!
) hayz sawap sawap mabuhay kapagka ganyan ha!! don’t worry darating din yan! ;P
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